Just like the title says it. He thinks he can win at this game, he has other things coming. Wants to tell me that it is me that he isn't romantically inclined. HA!!! He doesn't have one romantic bone in his damn body. And if anyone reads this, I am sorry if I offended you, wait a minute, NO I AM NOT!!! this is my blog and I am posting whatever I want because I need to get things off my chest.
DH: What do you mean I don't show you I appreciate you?
ME: Umm because you don't. Everyday I take care of you and our daughter and all you wanna do when you get home is get on the computer and check out your little car forum.
DH: No I don't, I say hey baby and I love you and stuff like that.
ME: OK so you do, but do ever just say hey how was your day, even though 
you know I was stuck here at the house doing wifely shit and taking care of the baby? NO you don't, and do you ever once say WOW babe, thanks for cleaning up the house, thanks for making sure I have clean clothes and food in my stomach and the list goes on and on...NO you don't. Do you ever just come home from work and take the baby and say hun, just go take a shower or take an hour or so to yourself while I watch her....NOOOOO YOU DON'T!!!
you know I was stuck here at the house doing wifely shit and taking care of the baby? NO you don't, and do you ever once say WOW babe, thanks for cleaning up the house, thanks for making sure I have clean clothes and food in my stomach and the list goes on and on...NO you don't. Do you ever just come home from work and take the baby and say hun, just go take a shower or take an hour or so to yourself while I watch her....NOOOOO YOU DON'T!!!DH: Damn I didn't think I had to do that, I thought you knew I appreciated all of that.
ME: Well after 4 years of the same crap everyday, over and over again, sometimes a little word of appreciation goes a long way....and you know what? don't let me get started on the whole not really showing me your attracted still either because that right there is a whole nother argument in its own.
DH: What you think I am not interested anymore.?
ME: Well you know what, lets just say that this conversation is over with and your taking the baby tonight, and your feeding her, and your giving her a bath, and your making your own diner. Good night! (I made sure she was buckled in her highchair and gave her a hug and a kiss goodnight before leaving her with her daddy, so don't be thinking I just handed her off)
That's about how much I really DONT GIVE a flying pigeons butt right now about anything my husband has to say. Why do men have to be so ignorant and just without a clue. OF COURSE you have to tell us, even if its just once a week or once every two weeks. The little things matter the most.
OK sorry I had to get that out because I have been sitting here our room pondering if I really wanted to just pack up mine and the baby's stuff and leave while he was sleeping or if I wanted to blog about it and get it off my chest so I can start a new day with a better attitude. I do feel better now, hopefully he sees after tonight what I go through in a day with the baby, and that wasn't even close to a full days worth.
1 comment:
definitely healthier to blog! good luck with this, i understand what you're saying, my mom was a stay-at-home for 19 years and raised my brother and I while my dad was working, and playing gigs with his crappy wedding band for 15 years and when he was home they barely communicated about anything other than his business. I never saw that appreciation for my mom which made me think it was ok to be treated that way...not good when i was 15 and with a guy who treated me like crap but i took it. keep blogging! it'll help a lil!
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